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Tuesday, December 27

Finally!

to all well wishes: thanks loads. yes i'm finally 18 and yes i'm legal to buy alcohol and what not. esp to lingwei, i don't know why haha when i saw ur sms i was a little more happy haha. thanks gerl. i miss you too. =)

a relatively different feeling this year, haha i don't know why. every year is different of cos, but this year, just a little especially so. maybe, zhang da le haha. many reflections this year, as well as many dreams, wishes and everything haha.

many special thanks this year. =)

to dearest sebes and wenjie: each time people drop by my house, i would always point to them the jigsaw you TWO have made for me and yes i'm so damn proud of it. thanks for the pleasant surprise, and rmb our promise okay? =)

to fey: although there were some funny and uncalled for kinda confusion haha, glad that yup i'm once more able to celebrate it with you all. thanks to jinglin despite ur EMERGENCY that day, thanks to all others for the cake on the tray which is used to put dunno wad... -___- and wendy, your presence there is a cool surprise!

to 4e3 '03: thanks for the mini celebration. meiyi alicia belinda qiuyan, thanks for the gift. i love it a lot haha.

to leen and dennis: thanks for the handphone sofa, adidas striking red/orange shaped bottle, and dennis your lovely cookie. yingxian kept psychoing me say it was your first batch of cookie made then that's why gave me haha. but anyway, thanks! oh and my dear gerl, thanks for the photo you uploaded on your blog. haha. revenge eh? =P

to dorcas: i wonder if you ever will come here, haha. but i just wanna thank ya for the card and the words. somehow, there's this "special thanks" for you but i'm not able to present it in words haha. hope to see you soon!!

to yan peng: hahaha oops. thanks for the star "light" haha. its really star bright. i thought it was those like star awards kind of trophy initially haha. so star really reminds you of me uh? haha shall forgive you for forgetting my birthday on account of the gift. hehe. thanks thanks!

to wendy: thanks for the tee and short and the "fragile" gift. it was really nice and wonderful. thanks for the time and effort, i really appreciate it loads. very honoured, haha really. =D

to this person, you think i've left you out? haha. this year, there's this person who awfully touched me with the gift made, and yup for the very first time, i teared upon receiving a gift. to this dearest sis by the name of cassandra ong, there's no exact words to represent how touched i felt that moment when i first read it, just very touched. and jie will love you always. ='D

if there's anyone i missed out, thank you thank you and thank you. =)

Heli Dont ask me why 10:43 PM

Wednesday, December 14

Disappointment exists due to the presence of expectation. So is it right to say, without expectation, there will be no disappointment? Expecting good things to come, and at the back of the head, preparing for the worst. yeah i think it crosses out each other. Somehow i just got this link to a thought, "what you see depends on what you look for." so.. yeah. And so, the cliche part, despite the rules of the games, it's all about how you want it to be played.

our thoughts, are our architects of destiny. - David O Mckay.

Cool haven't talk on the phone for a long time like a few minutes ago. 2 hours.

Heli Dont ask me why 11:59 PM

Monday, December 12

and celebration again!

11th Dec

I wonder how to go about blogging this. because, it all seems very exciting. =P

we met at compass and bought the stuffs for steamboat. kept debating about what desert to have etc. haha and everyone was rather "heart-attacked" when they know that cass is our chef that day cos all the past few soup for steamboat barely passed haha. and yup, headed back to my house. (or rather, "our house".)

started cooking and what not. and blow, the amazing part was that my dad allows us to lay the pool table! we shifted the furniture and what not and tada! pool table in the living room! (i think my house will be the hang out more often le due to the pool table lols.) about 7 feet length and mini small balls and super light cue, haha they were all mad about it i tell you, and jianting and me were rather tempted to play but we're faithful to the cooks in the kitchen, blah decided to help them instead. (heh cos washing will be the rest do lor) yup cut and slice and peel fish, meat, crab meat, eggs, vegetables etc etc.

oh, we bought honey grazed chicken and black pepper chicken too and so yixin belle youcai and ck started to cut the chicken. my goodness you should see the way they cut it, yucks. lol and plus they ate the meat while cutting kay! and ck keep insisting that he is only eating the bone. duh. and blow the shock came, my power supply tripped off! and after a few more trips, i realised that my fridge is down. =X there goes the rest of the food in it, ice cream blah blah blah.

dinner time! heh nothing much to say though, as usual jinglin inputs to the dinner etc, haha.. food was nice, soup was nice (finally), yup. and then more pool, die another day on the tv, cocktails, and ice cream. phew the ice cream wasn't really melted so yup. heh.

and so.. video shown, pictures taken. and all ended nicely. and special thanks to cass ong, thank you for once being not late in helping to prepare, even stayed in the kitchen through out haha. cos this is really rare hahaha.

actually i too wanna mentioned something even more valuable to me, and that's my dad and my bro. the way my bro helped out during the tripped off, was friendly to my friends. the way my dad readily assisted us in laying the pool table, dinner table, and not flaring at me when the fridge was down, and also the few seconds sharing with me about his past memories about playing pool, yeah i was utterly touched.

but at the end of it all, what i'm glad about is having to know these bunch of people. to the rest of the readers out there, let me tell u what's fey.

fey = elfin = usually good-naturedly mischievous.

and for me, i don't really have a definition for fey. it's beyond words, but however if i were to really define it, fey is fey. sounds stupid, but yup that's my definition. =)

Heli Dont ask me why 10:55 PM

Celebrations!

10th Dec

Yeah i'm so proud of this gift zhiwen and wenjie gave. i tell you i was so stunned when they appeared at my house with this gift. okay not stunned bout their presence cos they said they will come fetch me, but the gift! Cos stupid zhiwen told me he made it for wenjie as their 1st year anniversary gift, and even showed it to me 2 months ago! and stupid me so easily believe him and thus explained why i was so shock to see the gift for me! haha.. but hey, this is a 1000, one thousand, yi qian ge pieces puzzle eh! *wide smile*

after the pleasant shock i received, we headed to yuki yaki at marina square. it's something like soeul garden though, but i guess it's cheaper and the ice cream part is cool. you wait for the ermm "wok" to cooled and when you pour the liquid ice cream inside, it freezes and there, ice cream!

to dear overly-careful and overly-careless: hey. =) it's been a fun day with two of you, really. it's not about the present and free meal that makes my day, but the time spent with both of you really poured joy into my heart. the things we talked about, how we tease each other(actually most of the time only you two being teased haha!) yeah, all in all, i really love it! promise me that, every year around this time, you two will still bring me out okay! every year till the end of my time. heh! and lastly, i love you guys loads, loads.

Heli Dont ask me why 2:54 PM

Thursday, December 8

you've matured. that, for sure, is true. as i read on, yeah and i feel glad for you. yet at the same time, i still wonder, and pain for why things have to turned out this way. a standstill, that is.
today i watched "perhaps love", and at the beginning, there's this guy whom said something like this:

In our own life, we are the leading actor . At times in other people's lifes, we think, and we are the 2nd leading actor. Yet sometimes, we maybe just a supporting actor to them, or maybe nothing at all. A mum to a child at birth is a leading actor, but 20 or 30 years down the road, would the mum still play the same role in the child's life?

true enough. i ponder and there's a side of me that didn't want to face up to reality. reality didn't say anything, but reality shows that it's perhaps a no-more situation for me. i can never be an important actor in your life anymore. and to you, in my story, you're as if the hidden actor, one that has always been standing behind and i'm waiting for you to be on the stage with me once more.

perhaps so, in my dream only.

Heli Dont ask me why 11:17 PM

Wednesday, December 7

wo de tian. i just cried like dunno what just now over the last two episodes of "stained glass".
terribly sad. and goodness it's 4plus le.

ok time to sleep.

Heli Dont ask me why 4:03 AM

Friday, December 2

2 weeks gone by since the exams.
hah surrounding peeps finding jobs, going out, clubbing, etc etc.
i just feel like floating around to nowhere,
just enjoy whatever that comes by.
indulge in a lost moment.
yeah i'm in it.

the desire to get lost in this place i'm familiar in
so as to develop a new feeling towards everything
to build up new aspirations, new hopes, new relationships.
let me get lost, so i can start anew.
to start anew.

Heli Dont ask me why 12:54 AM

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